Big and meaty is a good thing for a big guy. I got the weird backpack thing with my Maxxis tire, too, and all I could think of was I'd rather have a better price
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I've mostly been using 180/185 fronts and 160/165 rears (depending on bike/brakeset) for quite a while, altho the Hightower came with 180 front and rear....almost shrunk the rear but I'm getting used to having more brake on the rear I think so think I'll leave it alone. Long ago I tried dual 200s but that was way overkill for me. You use metallic or organic pads? I've used metallic mostly since going disc, they seem to work better overall in all conditions.
I'm getting my old Heckler (or I guess Beckler since I converted it to 650B/27.5") ready as a spare bike and just yesterday ordered spokes to rebuild its rear wheel. I had originally used triple butted Sapim Lasers, but had several break due to a branch in the spokes, and replaced a couple years ago with what was available in a shop on a road trip (not even black like the rest of them, and were not butted at all
). The triple butted Lasers don't seem to be available (at least from the shop's supplier) so am just getting double butted this time. I almost left the wheel as is but had boo-booed in servicing the hub (just moving too fast) and got the outer race stuck in the hubshell and couldn't get a punch to bite on it so decided to deconstruct it to make it easier to ship the hubshell to King to let them get the race out
. Been a while since I built a wheel....that one lasted 10 years, tho, even with the makeshift repair.
Beefy wheels and tire sidewalls can be a good thing, especially for big guys (IIRC one reason Santa Cruz did the 120tpi up front but the stiffer 60tpi in rear on the Rekons, to provide a bit more stability for the rear).