I agree with HD, you obviously know your stuff so for calculations especially just using online calculators, I too, will leave that to you to figure that out.
My 2 cents would be:
- we have had this conversation before, there are 0, or near 0 chance that you would get all 7 channel to blast away at once to the same maximum peak level. Surely they may "blast away at once" so you are correct in that sense, but not, or hardly to the same "maximum peak" level all at once. When they do all "blast away", if at or near the maximum level of that particular movie or whatever (except the so called 7 ch stereo), it wouldn't last long. For short moment peaks, the power supply's (those typically found in D&M AVRs) overload capability can handle those moments, to a point of course or it would just shutdown to protect itself. Remember, this coming from someone who has taken lots of measurements using the proper meters.
- I agree you may not get much room gain due to your room treatment, may be even 0 gain but rest assure it won't be negative. (I assume you know that too, just want to be sure).
- I don't think the X1300W can do the job for you base on the given info. Can you not bite the bullet and go for a X4200w, x3300w or x4300h from ACFL if not Amazon?