I started out here at audioholics as a 2 channel only listener. Fortunately for me, my older AVR allows me to listen in pure direct with the sub still active. Add a graphic EQ, separate amp/dsp for the sub and you can pretty much flavor it however you need to.
I'm also still a fan of chunky speakers with large woofers, even more so after having been forced to listen to bookshelf speakers for a spell. In spite of the current trends, the overbearing WAF being inflicted on audio due to aesthetics, of all things, I still like what I like. I've tried the other ways. This just ends up being a lot less fiddling and fuss, and a lot less $$.
On the other hand, I am glad I was talked into trying subwoofers. It adds another level of fine tuning that I am slowly but surely figuring out.