Yea my speakers are too big for this room. I like what you are saying and thanks for your opinion. I'll take them down and see if there is a difference. I got a noise complaint yesterday lol so maybe I'll test them out in a bit. New speakers... now I need a new house....
I have been pondering and researching your problem. Those last pictures are helpful. Although it is a small room, it is very open and would not therefore likely develop intense standing waves. I was particularly concerned about your statement that your problem is relived to a high degree by using a mediocre sub rather then the bass extension of those speakers.
Did you carefully audition those speakers before purchase and under what conditions?
I ask this because I'm frankly concerned that those speakers despite looks and high price are not actually very good.
I had a bad feeling about your graph with concerns that it might actually show speaker resonance with a strong second harmonic.
Now I have not heard those speakers, and I can not find any third party measurements. I have come across quite a few subjective reports that say those speakers have "bloated" bass.
I have heard quite a few smaller Totem speakers. My overwhelming impression has been good but not quite right. I had a pair in for repair a little while back and to be honest the crossover was not quite optimal by measurement.
Now as I understand it, Totem are low on science and high on subjective tuning by ear. This can work to an extent with simpler designs.
You are not going to produce a complex design like that without careful measurement, thorough design calculations based on a thorough understanding of the physics of sound reproduction.
I have a number of concerns about this speaker. Yes, just concerns as that is as far as I can go with the information I can gather.
I have concerns there may be a strong cabinet resonance.
Due to the low F3 from that woofer I'm concerned that this is a high Q extended bass alignment, which I avoid like the plague.
I'm concerned about the crossover from woofer to mids at 180 Hz.
These are a problem for two reasons. The high component values tend to push driver Qs upwards and as Billy Woodman if ATC continually points out those passive low crossover points frequently results in electrical resonances in the crossovers. I think this is what Floyd Toole is referring to with his remarks about exotic high end speakers requiring arc welding amps to drive them because of incompetent design.
These low crossover points also make it next to impossible to get good sub integration. You end up with two crossover points too close together. This results in peaked band pass gain which is very hard to deal with and impossible without aids like mini DSP.
Lastly in general I have frequently found high priced exotic speakers to not be very good.
Lastly a hall mark of problem speakers is exacerbation of room problems, whereas better more competent designs minimize them.
The bottom line is that I have concerns that those speakers despite good looks and a high price, may not be your optimal option.