You are asking for a lot. You want something that has the looks of furniture grade home audio speakers yet you will be carting them around so they will need to be rugged. Anything mobile will get beat up, and that's why pro-audio live sound gear looks the way it does. A typical home audio speaker will not last long with what you intend to do.
If I were you, I would get a pair of these
JTR Noesis 210RT speakers, and I would skip the subwoofer. Those speakers have reasonable extension down to 40 Hz, and they will take a beating, yet they are not totally industrial looking like live sound speakers. A good receiver or amplifier will be able to drive them to deafening levels without endangering them.
Another solution is a pair of these
Three Pi or
Four Pi speakers. Add to those a
JTR Captivator S1 subwoofer. That is a system which will pound very hard without breaking a sweat.
And no, those B&O speakers are nothing like what you need for your purposes. They will die very quickly.
By the way, what you are doing is terrible for your ability to hear well, seriously.