Thank you Herbu! Sounds like I'm already in a good place. There is no need to head into the obscene world of audio porn. I very much appreciate your wisdom.
I believe, as you do, that it all comes down to what you can hear that makes a difference, not how much you paid. I do believe that aesthetics do play a roll in all of this. However, paying 10's of thousands of dollars for the aesthetics is not worth it, for me.
As for the $30k budget, I actually have quite a bit more. There is just no need to spend it on something I cannot hear, nor inaudible specs I will probably not care about any way. Gene and Hugo do a great job of steering us clear of the "snake oil".
This is a journey. And I'm grateful to those who have cleared the path ahead for others.