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I'm afraid the answer to the first part is mainly emotional! I listened to speakers in a demo room maybe 15' square, the amp being a Roksan Kandy K3 stereo amp, starting with the Bronzes and similar other makes. They were just speakers, I was just listening to the system. Then the Golds came out, and suddenly, I was listening to music, and falling into it. Clear vocals, great roll-off, effortless introduction of drum beat, this is 'coming to life', for me.
At home, in a room 20' x 12', on the Marantz, again 2 channel (bi-amped, 79 strand oxy-free copper speaker cable) the Gold 200s did not come to life for me. They're good, they're perhaps even very good, but I believe they are capable of more. Strangely, the higher the volume, the better they are, a characteristic that I had not noticed on demo. But at normal listening volumes, which for me mean a level where a normal conversation can still be held with the person you are sitting next to, they are flat, lifeless, nothing different from high street level kit.
It's hard to be analytical, but the lack seems to be across the frequency range, which is why a catch-all term like 'lifeless' springs so readily to mind. Cranked up, all frequencies respond well, although the system is very unforgiving of any lack in source quality, with a catastrophic collapse of treble on compressed sources such as Spotify.
The room layout is wide rather than long, sitting across from the speakers at maybe 8 or 9 feet away, speakers 8 or 9 feet apart (layout attached). Audyssey has been run, listening level with another person in the room is 50 to 60, on my own, I listen at 60 to 70, occasionally enjoying a blast of electro at 90 to energise the soul. At this level, the bass from the 5.5" drivers is quite extraordinary, making me question my orignal plan to add a sub to the system when I can.
Listening tastes, critically jazz, blues, vocals, acoustic, less critically, rock and roll, punk, pop, a bit of electro blues / swing.
So, really, then, the problem is at a lowish listening level, where 'something' seems to be lacking across the board.