I turned my Z9 to -9 on the (main volume ) then used my Radio Shack SPL to get all the speakers at 82-83 db
John, PENG is right. Remember, when you use your meter, you are
balancing the speakers relative to each other. You're not setting the overall volume.
If you set your Z9 volume to -9, and your speakers show 74-75dB when set to 0, it's OK. Or you can set your Z0 to 0, and your speakers will show 83-84dB when set to 0. That's OK too. Whether your speakers show 74 or 84 during calibration doesn't matter. The thing that matters is that the levels of all speakers, including your subs, are the same.
Say your listening position was 6' from the Left speaker, and 20' from the Right speaker. During calibration you would have to increase the volume of your right so
at your seat their volume is equal. The overall volume is controlled by you and the master volume on your Z9 during normal listening, not during calibration.
So don't try to make everything louder during calibration. Make everything match. And use "0" as your target. Maybe you'll need to raise/lower a speaker by 1-3dB due to their position in the room relative to your seat. But try to have your individual speakers close to zero.
Powered subs have a gain/volume on the sub itself. If you calibrated your speakers at/near 0, use the volume on the sub to get it at the target level with your AVR sub setting also at 0. Remember, your AVR has a limited range for individual speaker/sub volume. It is usually around 9dB. That means the most you can increase the volume of a single speaker/sub with your AVR is 9dB.
So if during calibration, you used the AVR to increase your sub volume 7dB, and for a movie you decide you want more, the AVR will only let you turn it up 2 more dB. If you used the volume on the sub during calibration so you hit your target level with the AVR at 0, you have the full 9dB to play with.
Hope this helps a little. No matter where you put your Z9 master volume during calibration, try to balance all your speakers and subs so they are as close to 0 as possible.