Great! I can purchase that balanced splitter and use two XLR cords which I have. Would that be better than using the unbalanced? Also, what is the reason for splitting the signal to connect the first sub with two cables rather than one?
I have not balanced my system. I assure you, there is a reason I am posting in this section of the forum.
In my experience connecting to both of the inputs is better than just one. I would try it the way I listed above, with the rca cables and splitters.. I would also invest in an spl meter... you can get them from $9-$100
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First the subs must be in phase and leveled, using test tones and spl meter, plug them in how I listed above and try each phase, pick the one which is loudest for each sub.... Then set each subs level, turn sub 1 on and 2 off, set level on sub to 50% and on umc to 0, check the level with the test tone and meter, say its 90db, then shut that sub off and set the second sub to match it at 90db using that subs volume control , not the umc's leveler... Now they will be in phase and balanced
How I set my umc200 is measure all the distances from the speaker baffle to the center listeners position and set all the levels to the same db with the spl meter and test tones... So say you start the test tones and the first speaker is 90.2db set them all to the same thing, then set the sub...
I think your subs are crossed wrong, out of phase, wired wrong,and out of balance, lol making everything crazy when they are both on fighting each other and your mains... I spend a lot of time setting up dual subs, balance is important, you would think the volume setting for each should be in the same spot, but it is never the case, they are always different...