This is a strange one: Wife suggested an idea to me to get a car driving game so she could practice on her (real) car driving skills
I know this is a useless and hopeless quest, but I found two very different ways to go by it:
a) Cheap and cheerful: use existing xbox360 (free), get a cheap racing wheel (from Hori) and few old racing games (also cheap) - Forza 3 and 4
b) Go all the way with PS3 500gb, Top-o-line logitech wheel and gt5 and very soon gt6 games
We decided on option, knowingly that thou it would be much less realistic, she still could try it and see it she could improve reaction time and hand/eye coordination skills
If she really gets into this we might splurge for option b later on