Well, I don't know about "flat out better", but you did post that the Phil 3s sounded more life-like than any other speaker you have. You even got me looking into the Phil 3. Then you got the 802D2s, and said they sounded as good as any speaker you owned. Later on you listened to Orions, and they were also right up there. There are all great speakers, and while I haven't heard the Phil 3s (dammit), I have heard the Orions and the 802D2s, and those two speakers in particular don't sound all that much alike. I fully admit that I haven't heard them in the same room, but you might be the only person on the planet to have ever done that.
So when I say I'm less forgiving I should have said I'm less forgiving of differences.
I do believe you are telling us exactly what hear and feel at the time. I re-read my post, and I didn't accuse you of dishonesty, nor was that intended. On the other hand, I'm not sure you're as good an indicator of what I might like as I thought you might be, that's all. For a while I simply thought we had very similar taste, that's all, but you still have valuable opinions, at least to me.