Dangerous generalizations
Sounds like the audio store in the original post was promoting a rabid purism, and Rip Van Woofer strikes a complimentary dismissive position. Both, like most forms of zealotry, are reductionist and wrong. Wrong to say "all solid state gear sounds hard and flat" as it is to say "all tube gear has rolled off highs, undamped bass, and lots of distortion" - but that's the knee jerk reaction of both sides. 'Fact is that there is exquisite gear and low grade dreck on both sides of the debate. Sweet gear of either construction has more in common with each other than with the dreck of either. In the high end, you can get superb sound out of many different approaches - although their aesthetics and situations for which they are suited are quite different.
First of all, there's really two arguements going on here:
1) Tubed versus Solid State gain stages in preamps and amps. I'll focus on this, since this seems the meat of the thread.
2) Digital versus Analog. The analog purist rejection of digital is all-of-a-piece with the single-ended triode purist position. Even extreme audiophiles want the new music that only comes out on CD, so there's been a lot of hope invested in SACD and DVDA - but these are clearly still marginal formats. That being said, even redbook CD, now after decades of tweaking, can offer amazing sound with the right gear. Few audiophiles will argue digital is inherently bad; just that the redbook standards are too low resolution to compete with an ace turntable setup. However, eventually a higher resolution standard will come along and this issue will be put to rest. So I'll only focus on the amp debate.
My purpose here isn't to settle the debate, but to counter the kneejerk reductionists by offering a description of the major design movements within both camps so as to shed some light on the issue. Let me identify the major gain-stage divisions as I see them:
1) Mighty bass-king amp that can drive any speaker with iron authority tends to be sold state (Krell, Crown, Bryston, Outlaw audio, Adcom, Aragon, etc..). This is right in line with the conventional audio engineer perspective that measurable qualities are all that counts, so pour on the power. These kind of amps are great for difficult loads or really big systems. Clearly most Japanese receivers are in this tradition. I really don't have to do much to sell this angle - probably 95% of folks in the audio community adhere to this dogma.
2) High current, lower wattage solid state amps that strive for simplicity - (Pass Labs, 47 labs, maybe Harman Kardon to a less extent). These guys strive to get rid of feedback, extra gain stages, and a lot that extra control circuitry to get a clean circuit that sounds great. Pass used to make a class A monobock (Aleph 30) that weighed 100lbs but put out only 30 watts, all class A and with so much current it could drive almost anything and only one gain stage. It was extremely sweet and sounded fast and direct with amazing detail and dynamics.
3) Warm and tubey solid state. Solid state that aims for the "tube" sound (Carver, YBA, Mobile Fidelity, maybe Denon a bit). Liquid and deep is the watchword here.
4) Massive stiff Pentode tube amps with transformers. The conventional tube design from way back, gangs parallel groups of tubes to increase power, rated specs, and damping factor. (Conrad Johnson, Audio Research, Sonic Frontiers, Van Alstine, Dynaco, Macintosh). This used to be what most people thought was tube amps until single-ended came along. The sound can be warm and tubey, or tight and punchy. There tends to be that magic midrange. I have an Audio Research Classic 60 with 16 Soviet KT-90 tubes that sounds as sharp, full range, and bass slamming as a high-end solid state amp.
5) Transformerless (OTL) tube amps. The transformer has been eliminated and replaced with a bunch of tubes. This mojo is beyond my knowledge. These amps possess a special magic. Also they are impedence matched for some big electrostatics. These amps like high impedence - and with the right speaker they are positively lengendary with amazing presence, dynamics, immediacy and rhythmic drive.
6) Single-ended Triode minimalist amps. Goes for the minimalist aesthetic by having a single gain stage going through a single triode tube. This monolithic purity gets as much circuitry out of the way as possible at the cost of poor specs, rolled off treble, and loose bass damping factor (just like RVWoofer states). However I bet RVWoofer never has listened to a high end SET system. Enthusiasts have come up with all kinds of accomidations, mainly extremely sensitive horn loaded speakers like the Avantgarde Trios from Germany that can put out 101db with 1 watt. Midrange presence is amazing. Vocalists are in the room with an immediacy and power unobtainable with other gear.
So what? At the high end there has been a growing sense that global feedback and multiple gain stages muddy up the sound. There have been many design attempts to build simple, pure, circuits both in solid state and tube designs and some of them are truly magical. What is gained? Dynamics, clarity, subjective soundstage depth, spooky accurate imaging. Did I say dynamics? The jump factor and tingle are really what separates high end from mid. What is lost? Well, global feedback and multiple gain stages allow you to use lower spec parts and still get a circuit that measures very well. The paradoxical thing is that they don't sound as good as they measure. Pure circuits require fanatical quality of each part - this require manual testing of parts and the resulting gear is more prone to part failure. Most mid-fi receivers are built to hit spec sheet benchmarks at a low price. The only way to do this is with the redundancy and smoothing of feedback.
Where does this leave the solid state versus tube debate? It's irrelevant. What gets lost is the subjectivity of what defines a great amp. Someone who wants effortless power and gut wrenching bass (like in a big solid state amp) would really hate a small purist amp that failed in those departments - like a single ended triode. Someone who is looking for haunting presence and emotional connection might immediately connect with the single ended triode amp and not enjoy a big Bryston as much. Clearly many amps can swing both ways to some extent. The big Bryston is going to sound very good in a lot of circumstances, but head to head isn't going to match the SET in those luminous magical midrange qualities. Is there more compromise with the SET position? Sure. Does that make it wrong? Well it depends on what you want. To attack and dismiss someone with differnt tasts is just, in my opinion, rude. The single-ended purists (and tube enthusiasts in general) feel the need (like people who love Macintosh computers) to tell the mainstream about how great their more-expensive less-well-known gear is, in case they didn't know. For some it's a crusade. That's tiresome. On the other side there's the Audio Engineer dogma that anything isn't measurable or testable in a double-blind situation is just imaginary. Anyone who has lived with a variety of amps and an open mind know that is is just flat out wrong. Clearly all of these amp designs (and more too, that I've neglected to mention) have their strengths and weaknesses and require the right system matching...
I've owned over a dozen amps in the last 20 years, including both solid state and tube designs from Audio Research, Carver, Dynaco, Muse, Sony, Yamaha, Mobile Fidelity, Pioneer, and Adcom. Right now my home theater rig is a Yamaha HTR-5760 driving Gallo Acoustics Micros and my stereo rig is the aforementioned Audio Research Classic 60 drive ProAc Response 2s. Over the years, even with the cheap tube amps like the Dynaco Stereo 70 II (which cost a little over $600 for a 35 watt stereo unit), the tube amps have given great sonic satisfaction for the buck. The Adcom which cost about the same had better base but lower resolution and a more veiled midrange which made it a better amp for hard rock but inferior for most everything else. Tubes just can't be dismissed easily. Whatever the technical reason, there is something that really sounds great about a well implimented tube design. Everyone really owes it to themselves to actually go and listen at some point, rather than just dismiss.
However, given economies of scale, market forces, and the facts of technology, tubed gear is just more expensive these days. Mid-Fi receivers pack a lot of value into a little money. I've bought single digital cables that cost (much) more than my Yamaha receiver - but the Yamaha provides pleasure and does many things right. However, when I listen to a stereo recording on the Yamaha, and then on the ARC, there no comparison at all. The ARC has resolution and dynamics on a completely different order, despite having only 2/3rds the rated power. With the ARC I can hear many many things that are just missing with the Yamaha (thats the resolution). The startle factor, the alive JUMP factor is also a totally different experience with the ARC. Textures, colors, detail, a hugely wider deeper soundstage - all way better. BTW the ARC, while it only puts out 60 watts weighs almost 100 pounds and can heat a room running in class A with those big KT90 tubes running in Triode mode. This isn't a fair comparison - the ARC rig as a whole is vastly more expensive. If I had only $350 to spend on amplification, there's no doubt that I'd buy a Japanese receiver. There just isn't any competition at all at that level (literally). However, once you're spending a grand or two, things get very interesting and everyone needs to open their mind and go and listen to all kinds of gear.