parndt007, yeah, that's a headache. FWIW, there were/are many who can't even get a signal to pass at all thru a receiver because of the lack of HDCP repeaters (mostly with cable).
What I usually said in those cases was to just run the HDMI, or component for that matter, directly to the display. Run SPDIF from stb to receiver. 3ft HDMI and optical is what, $15 total at Monoprice?
You can now calibrate your video to each source.
On one hand, if your wife hates that she has to pick up the TV remote to change between DVD and TV, you could pick up a URC RF20 + blaster for $80 (and now you can hide your components if you want).
OTOH, you can just play along, and say, "You are ABSOLUTELY right, honey. We MUST upgrade the receiver, no doubt about it!".
