Haha.
Why, do the Starke amps measure like some pro amps from Crown and Yamaha or just not awesome like SINAD of 100dB?
Everyone feels differently for sure.
Personally, there's no way I would even use external amps unless it's like Bryston, ATI, Krell, Mark Levinson, Lexicon, McIntosh, PassLab, etc. Like you said, I might as well just use an AVR (like Yamaha or Denon) if I can't get the amps I
TRULY DESIRE/WANT.
Funny thing is, I could EASILY get a Marantz AV10 or AV20, which measures a lot better than my Yamaha CX-A5100, but I just don't care. I love my Yamaha CX-A5100.
So everyone just feels differently about everything.