my appologies...
So sorry for not getting back to you all! the seller took forever to get back in touch with me...I tried multiple times to hear with no avail. I still believe they are for sale but I'm reconsidering based this:
N803's while I'm sure are a great speaker for the $2k price...they just aren't for me all things considered. My room requirements are just not enough for them, and considering I may move in the near future isn't helping that cause. Also, my amplification would HAVE to improve to get the most out of them, again not something I'd like to do. I'd rather devote that money elsewhere...so my thoughts at the moment are 805di's but I don't want to post any questions because I'm still all over the place. Since I'm considering some of the up and coming Marantz 7xxx line soon to come out...it should be enough to handle the 805Di's while fulfilling other needs as well.
In the end I think I was trying to tell myself the N803's are perfect but for me they aren't.