I would choose the Denon for the Audyssey MultEQ XT, because I have fallen in love with this RC as provided by my Onkyo.
HOWEVER, the Pioneer also has time domain RC, which also allows adjustment of EQ post calibration, unlike the Audyssey.
OTOH, I do know the XT provides hundreds of filters.
Also, there are some 3808 owners here who have had bad luck with the Audyssey. For me, the XT was a godsend.
YMMV! good luck...