Any advise on how to haggle with the banks/mortgage brokers? Does Lending Tree really get you the best offer? Can you take the best offer and counter offer to the lenders? Let say I get a fixed 30 year at 6.25% (is this a good rate?) could I send out a reply saying first lender to knock of 1/4 of a % gets me to sign the dotted line or do they tell me to go away?
It does not really work like that. I would also advise against doing that as most loan officers will not want to work with you. The more you understand about the process the better the deal you should be able to procure.
A mortgage rate is based upon several key factors.
1) Credit score/history
2) Loan-to-Value Ratio or LTV
3) Loan purpose/type of mortgage/property type/use
A rate tends to be custom for each person's situation.
All mortgage lending is risk based, the lower the risk the better the rate.
Because of the subprime mess and tightening of credit standards, brokers do not really offer the best deals anymore.
There are two type of pricing for rates, retail (through banks directly) and wholesale (brokers). Most larger banks have retail and wholesale divisions. The biggest banks offering the best rates have been leaving the wholesale business completely (Bank of America & National City to name a couple), and/or increasing the rates on the wholesale side of their business. It ends up with people getting better rates directly from banks rather than through a broker. It is simply a way for the banks to control where their business is coming from and lowers their exposure to potentially higher risk loans.
Lending Tree doesn't offer you anything more than an educated shopper can't do on their own.
Be careful with rate quotes also. Find out the assumptions. Nearly all online rate quoting services quote with you paying at least one point (1% of the loan amount) to get that rate. If you do pay a point, ask if the point is charged as an origination fee or as a true discount point. If a broker is getting you a good deal, they will have to charge both, but it will cost you.
6.25% is a good rate without paying any points in today's volatile market. Lower is possible but it depends upon the day. If bonds are up again on Monday, it may be worth locking in if you are ready to go on something.