I love posts like this... A while back remember an article in stereophile {I believe} where a company in the UK built a small building for "perfect sound reproduction" a weird floor plan where the room went from narrow to wide, pitched ceilings, acoustic tiles and traps, and really high end audio equipment, with a single seat.... Then they went to town trying to tune it with all kinds of gear and let some "well trained ears" take a listen, the results were mixed some loved it and its complexity others called it a waste of resources...
But anyway, if you have a room in your home that you want to make a "music only room" I think you will be more satisfied spending money making it comfortable than going crazy trying to make it sound friendly, in other words a comfortable chair and a decor that you can live with may give you more enjoyment than sitting on a milk crate holding an acoustic panel over your head at a 33 degree angle because it sounds better that way..
Now of course this is just my opinion in my home I have 2 kind of dedicated listening rooms, 1 of which is our formal parlor, no tv and a 2.2 system that only plays music, I set it up to look good and have furniture in the room that I am sure changes the sound a little for the worse, but it sounds great looks great and I dont have to have painted egg crates covering my cathedral ceilings... My other room is actually the living room in my guest suite, which has a tv but is not hooked to the sound system, its smaller than the other room and IMO more music friendly, I am constantly juggling around speakers and listening to different material in there, its a room where my wife wont complain when I have 4 pairs of speakers stacked up and wires running across the floor...
So the moral of the story, sure set the room up for great sound, but don't get so hung up that it takes away from the experience and your comfort.. good luck and post pics...