I have to say, I don't agree that higher power amps have a shorter life expectancy. IMO, it would be to the contrary in that at normal drive levels the higher power amp would work less hard. That's obviously an over simplification but I still don't think life expectancy should be weighed by power output, and I don't think it applies.
.02.
Also either way, with 2 subs they'll both be running a few db lower and therefore working less.