The take home message is
"My F3 must be near 30-45hz but I'd need to cross near 140hz to get a passable response , so I'm going to complain about it to make myself feel better"
But yeah, two or more subs will of course "center" the bass between them so it won't be as localizable. Whether it sounds "right" to cross higher, I do not know; way too many factors at play.
Yikes!! I don't like that dip between 80-90Hz or the peak between 100 and 200HZ. Will bass traps shallow out that dip?
I dunno, but what I do know is that I don't want to spend 200+ dollars on just the material needed for good bass traps if it doesn't flatten out my response. Because then I'd need to get more bass traps to place elsewhere, and that would deaden the room =(
Maybe I'll get a new amp, that'll fix my bass.
On the bright side, when your room doesn't measure too well, just pull a velodyne and use 1/3 octave smoothing!