OK, thanks everyone. I looked at various links, the points you people posted and ideas from AV guys that I spoke to and decided on this.
1) I'll ask the joiner to place a layer of
sorbothane between the laminate floor and wooden 'base' over the area where the subwoofer is supposed to sit. The wooden base will be part of the surrounding shelving but the subwoofer space will have 8" clearance at the back, sides and top and the speaker part will face the room.
2) I'll get a chunky
granite chopping board large enough to take the footprint of the subwoofer. Then stick a layer of
Polysorb-S Acoustic Foam self adhesive tile on each side of the board. Place this board on the wooden base mentioned above.
3) Place the
Subdude II isolation platform on top of the board.
4) The subwoofer on top of the platform.
That would mean there is the subdude, a thick granite board with a layer of acoustic foam on either side, a thick wooden base and a layer of sorbothane between the bottom of the subwoofer and the laminate floor. The room backs on to the en suite and there are no shared walls. Just the floor that I have to worry about.
If that does not work, I'll buy my downstairs neighbour a set of earplugs every fortnight.