Zero, be patient with us. You in fact are getting answers relevant to your situation.
You missed the second post where it was noted that the filters are not brick wall filters, but probably 24db/oct. For example and to help clarify things, in my setup, my filters for both low pass (subs) and high pass (mains) are only 12 db/octave; my subs are set somewhere in the low 60's for low pass, and my mains are high passed in the mid-80's (I don't trust the demarkations on the various controls, old analog stuff, so I don't know if these setting actually reflect the true values.) Regardless, I've got it set up so that room response is as flat as possible, using an omnimic for the sake of objectivity. Even though the relative crossover points are separated by a considerable amount, because they are not brick wall filters, the output in the 60-80 hz both from the subs and my mains is significant and sums to a flat response at the listening position. Point being, if you set your mains/center/surround for 60, 80, 100, or wherever, they will still have output below the chosen frequency (and for the subs, above the chosen frequency).
It's general good practice to high pass your mains/center/rears well above where their response drops off. So if your speakers -3db point is 60 hz, I would experiment with crossover frequencies higher than that by at least half an octave or so.
Whether or not you have a retro-grouch setup like mine, or the latest room correction having AVR, you should read the articles on
this page.
Hang in there, and good luck.