the deq is something you will have to try at home, there is A LOT to it, you will play with it for months, then the sounds will all melt together and you will try it without it one day and say "what am I doing?" and you will sell it on ebay for $125, lol...
I hear the same thing from everyone, its fun to play with but I prefer it as it is for 2ch listening, just like most people don't play with the tone adjustments on their preamps, they end up just wanting it as it is... Play with placement play with speaker choices and you will get a great sound... when you get the deq don't forget the mic...