Thank you for the advice... also sorry for the sort of repost, I just felt it was deserving of a new post since it is no longer about what things I should research, and more of what I intend to buy.
I would not want to have a speaker turned of on it's side for the center one. I actually like the look for the Behringer 2030p's, it's just the imbalance of teh speaker sideways is too much for me, if I could have 2 hooked up to the center that might work... If not think I would beable to find a center speaker to match the Behringer 2030p's? I could buy many different ones from best buy and frys and return the ones that don't sound good...
I am going to read more reviews on the recievers, I intend to have a few models I am watching for sales on.
My concern with the HDMI and adudio is in my laptop I have two ATI 4780s in crosfire, they transmite video and 7.1 audio, but there have been some issue with the radeon cards and the hdmi audio recognition, so I wanted to ensure the reciever would work with my laptop. (My laptop has a blu-ray player on it).
There seems to be a great sale on a polk audio center speaker atm:
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16882290023 would you guys think that would distort the Behringer 2030p's sound, or should I consider a polk audio speaker setup?