Single again... !!!

[Warpdrv]

Being single isn't all its cracked up to be. Speaking for myself having being down that road, I was never happy living that lifestyle. Although relationships can be up and down so long as the good times outweigh the bad, I'm easy.

Just my 2 cents!

I have no problem being in a relationship, I truly enjoy it - but when you know its not right - its a waste of time for both parties and nothing good can come of it.... I know this one was not going to go well - so it was clearly for the better in the end... Just too much in your face stuff with her, great girl but def had some things to work out for herself before jumping into a serious relationship after such a long marriage. Thankfully she has her own place - so it wasn't worse.

I can relate,I too raised my son as a single father he is now 22 yo and pretty much self sufficient, he still shops in my pantry and fridge on the weekends.I went through a similiar situation with a live in and realized that all the stuff and nonsense stole away precious time to be spent with my son and therefore went the same route as you , ended it never to look back, she had issues too and I was as faithful as any early thirties un-married guy could be,whats the saying I always window shopped but never went for the test drive, so whats wrong with that.Human nature,right .
Going the single route,well at least no live in girl while my son was younger, is the best thing that I ever did once he started his freshman year in college I tried the whole live together routine again and walla this time it went as it should and lo and be-hold I am happily married for the first time.(second marriage).
I think you did the absolute right thing Warp, why should you feel guilty and then have to apologize for the person that is supposed to be your partner in everyday life, her issues go far deeper than any one night at a bar, maybe if she got some therapy you two could end up at least friends being as to how you spoke of her GOOD qualities.I hope everything works out for you for the best, take care.

Good Man !!!! Glad it all came together for you - you are a noble person for doing what was right for your son... I have never had live ins while raising him on my own - I just never felt right about that... Just him and I against the world.

I'm sure I will find that girl - and someday get married - I do look forward to it... When its right you just know - I have had a couple gf's where we were like peas and carrots - just perfect together, just the wrong timing. Having that - makes it easier to see the ones that just don't mesh as well.

I also have zero tolerance for drama. Which is probably why I'm single.

You can say that again....

 

[ParadigmDawg]

Make sure this one is a clean break Warp. Looks like you took her back twice and I know you are smarter than that. Nothing will change with this one and there are about a billion more for you to enjoy.

 

[lsiberian]

What is the reason you've gone back twice bud?

My advice is

Go for the best(smartest) woman you can find that will put up with you. My wife is smarter than me and it makes our relationship much easier.

Always leave your balls in the bed and use your brain in the bar. The last thing we need is another stupid person reproducing.

Good luck. I knew I had met her when I got struck by lighting.(the only way to describe it) You meet her and you know.

 

[Warpdrv]

Make sure this one is a clean break Warp. Looks like you took her back twice and I know you are smarter than that. Nothing will change with this one and there are about a billion more for you to enjoy.

You said it bro....

Yup, its a clean break... and I made sure that we haven't had any face to face communication for the water works to start flowing... I'm kinda a sap so that stuff gets to me a bit, but its all settled and things have calmed down. Thats exactly why I didn't take her calls or txting... she's just way to darn emotional...

When we did have some emails back and forth, I made sure she got the point - and tons of people have got their thoughts in to help her ease her mind... Just so many negative people surrounding her (family) - I hope she finds some peace in getting some alone time instead of delving into a relationship in a hurry again... She's a great girl and I know we'll get back to have a great friendship soon enough....

Anywho... already gots my hooks into a few hotties.... yummy....
The Summer Of Love !!!

 

[Warpdrv]

What is the reason you've gone back twice bud?

My advice is

Go for the best(smartest) woman you can find that will put up with you. My wife is smarter than me and it makes our relationship much easier.

Always leave your balls in the bed and use your brain in the bar. The last thing we need is another stupid person reproducing.

Good luck. I knew I had met her when I got struck by lighting.(the only way to describe it) You meet her and you know.

We had some road blocks before, and just smoothed things over, probably because I care alot about her and she's a great person all in all, but looks like it didn't take in the end...

Careful... this girl is really smart - and I'll tell ya that alot of the smart girls have a problem turning off their brains and just overthink alot of stuff to the point, they just can't enjoy life to the fullest = even can get in the way of the sex life, as they just can't relax...?

HHeheheh the'll be no more little jr's comin from me... snip snip...
Not about to start over at 40....

 

[ParadigmDawg]

Warp,

I can't control my crying right now, I have idea what to do...sniff, sniff. I need money really, really bad....sniff, sniff. Help me Warp...send lots of money...sniff, sniff...

You said it bro....

...communication for the water works to start flowing... I'm kinda a sap so that stuff gets to me a bit.

 

[jinjuku]

Oh the Drama.... Figured I would start an alternative to lsiberian getting hitched (congrats btw)....

Oh where do I begin....

Been dating this one for almost 2 years -whom is fresh out of divorce when we start, and over the period of time - I made quite clear that I'm in no hurry to get married, but still feels the need to continually bring up the topic and push the issue - tiresome... to me that is a huge turn off... If I want to marry someone I will ask - not be forced into it... I just don't think that is the natural flow of how a relationship should go. I don't need a woman telling me "YOU NEED TO PUT A RING ON MY FINGER !!" I broke up with her 2 times already about this type of stuff, but the controlling pushy pattern continues. Not sure after a fresh divorce why she's in such a hurry to get married again...

Disclaimer - I am a flirt and like to socialize - but in the end I am going home with the woman I am with, its pretty straight forward here... I work 60-70 hours a week, sometimes more, so there is limited time to myself and I am with this woman at least 5 days a week.... so there isn't much question where I am all the time.... Apparently she still seems to feel that I am messing around...

Long story short - We are at the bar the other night after 2 drinks at a B-Day party, one of the waitress/bar tenders - very cute was outside with me talking for a few minutes while the woman hits the restroom. (She has made it very clear she doesn't like this girl) We come back inside and the X woman decides to call her a Whore to her face, and then after continues the verbal assault threatening her to stay away or else she'll take action...

It was at this point I have had enough !!! I slammed my cocktail and said lets go... Got back to the house and didn't argue with her - asked her to leave, ignored her calls for a few days, told her it was over...

I am a very fun and loving person who will give everything, including my soul when I am comfortable, but I can't stand the drama, and once it starts I have a hard time feeling it will get any better after that...

Generally overall she is a very fun girl and very pleasant, great cook and did lots of nice things for me to her credit - but it seems that for some people love - invokes jealousy, which turns to anger and aggressive behavior.... not very pleasant to deal with...

Rant over.... thanks for listening...

So did you go pick the waitress up?

 

[jamie2112]

Yeah what happened to the waitress? I would have hit that just for spite

 

[Warpdrv]

Heheheh....

Were goin out for lunch and a cycle ride tomorrow....

Speakin of smart girls.... unexpectedly - one of my Ex's came knockin on my door yesterday and I dropped everything and we went out and got schnockered - had an awesome time... This girl left me for Afghanistan - she's a interpreter/interrogator - speaks all the languages over there and has been through the ringer while whe was commissioned in the army - intelligence, since then after her duty was over went back as a contractor... she's now makin over $200k a year... I probably should marry this one !!!! heheh she'll be in DC for 4 months and home for 4 for her career...

Her and I beat the sh!t out of each other mentally - and have never once had an argument.... we're just retarded together... totally funny how life takes its crazy directions... not to mention the boatload of other hotties that have come out of the woodwork lately.... sh!t I'm such a Man Whore... !!

I still may just have to hit that waitress out of spite though.. Jamie !!!!!
You crack me up bro.... !!!

 

[oppman99]

Latch onto that contractor! Think of all the audio gear you would be able to buy! Seriously, sounds like things are looking pretty good for you right now. Hope it continues. At least have some fun with it (which I'm sure is your plan anyway). Cheers!

 

[Adam]

Warp, if this turns into a Harald sequel, I'm going to have to go to your wedding and slap you.

 

[Alex2507]

Warp, if this turns into a Harald sequel, I'm going to have to go to your wedding and slap you.

Not to worry. If it was a Harald sequel, Jamie and Jinjuku would have been reported for suggesting extra curricular boffing and 1/2 the town wouldn't be in imminent danger of: 'She's breaking up captain. Warp 9 is too much for her. I don't know how much longer she can take this.'

 

[mike c]

2 pages. no pics. am i missing something?

 

[Adam]

2 pages. no pics. am i missing something?

Yeah, the default setting for number of posts per page.

 

[mike c]

Yeah, the default setting for number of posts per page.

i actually noticed that when i posted ... but i was not sure if this hospital PC is messing things up (which come to think of it shouldn't)

 

[Warpdrv]

Yeah, no Harald sequal here....


Hope the weather holds here for the Bike ride... Maybe I can snap off a pic of the blonde with my bike, don't want to be too cheesy though...


http://www.accuweather.com/radar-large.asp?partner=accuweather&traveler=0&zipcode=&level=state&type=SIR&anim=1&site=WI_

Just north of Milwaukee... who...

 

[lsiberian]

Heheheh....

Were goin out for lunch and a cycle ride tomorrow....

Speakin of smart girls.... unexpectedly - one of my Ex's came knockin on my door yesterday and I dropped everything and we went out and got schnockered - had an awesome time... This girl left me for Afghanistan - she's a interpreter/interrogator - speaks all the languages over there and has been through the ringer while whe was commissioned in the army - intelligence, since then after her duty was over went back as a contractor... she's now makin over $200k a year... I probably should marry this one !!!! heheh she'll be in DC for 4 months and home for 4 for her career...

Her and I beat the sh!t out of each other mentally - and have never once had an argument.... we're just retarded together... totally funny how life takes its crazy directions... not to mention the boatload of other hotties that have come out of the woodwork lately.... sh!t I'm such a Man Whore... !!

I still may just have to hit that waitress out of spite though.. Jamie !!!!!
You crack me up bro.... !!!

The Contractor woman sounds hot. The Waitress is a good backup plan.
Both sound like they'd be good for the home theater system. The 200k means you could build even more maelstroms!

 

[STRONGBADF1]

GO, WARP, GO!

 

[Warpdrv]

The Contractor woman sounds hot. The Waitress is a good backup plan.
Both sound like they'd be good for the home theater system. The 200k means you could build even more maelstroms!

The Contractor is a bad @$$... and she'll be floating all over the world all the time, she's got a condo in Beirut - gotta love the habeeb.com - not sure exactly where that can go other then a playmate... great personality though and she's got more guns then I do, all nasty ones too...

 

[Warpdrv]

Ok Mike.... Here ya guys go - waitress.... this is how I roll... !!!

Naughty !!!!