Yeah, I think you're on the right track. I went down this road a while ago. I have a couple old Optimus amps(250w per,in mono) that I plugged into my RX-V3300 & recognized a much improved volume & response per the receivers indicator. However, I added a B&K amp for the rears & could barely hear it at the same level. My problem was the input impedance difference in the amps. The B&K needs more signal strength from the Yammy to achieve a similar volume.
What I did was defeat my mains by 10db on the 3300 & left the rears at "0" to match the amps input signal strengths(approx.) from the receiver. Unfortunately, that is the only option for controlling the output strength for the main preouts on my 3300 (either 0 or -10db).
You could probably defeat your surrounds to match the mains (with amp) easier since there is more of a fine adjustment with the surrounds.