So about a year after I started and 6 systems later I think the search is over. Thanks all for help and advise. I could write a few pages on why I picked KEF Q900s but to keep it short they are overall the best speaker I had in my house so far.
So to sum up (stuff I had at home for 1-4 months):
Pioneer - 4" 2-Way Bookshelf --- I had to start somewhere

Aperion Verus Forte --- Their OK I guess
Salk SongTowers --- GREAT for mellow stuff, not so much for the rest
ER0W2 --- same as SongTowers
KEF R300 --- great speaker for rock, bloated upper base, to make it sound bigger maybe?
KEF Q900 --- not as clean sounding as R300, but it's balanced perfectly
One last request for help any1 can help me to fix the cone breakup on the midrange? If I understand it right I just need to add a notch filter but I would need some step by step instructions.
Thanks all again. It's time to move on to a next hobby, bikes are next on the list, any1 knows a good spot to buy a used Harley?