update
it's been a while but I got a couple more auditions:
1. def techs, the biggest they had at BB was 8060 i think. I never listened to them before because they just don't look like an audiophile speakers. but DenPureSound recommended them and I was really impressed with what I heard. It was like the whole wall was playing. Soundstage was so big that it was like comparing projector screen to a PC monitor. The sound was very full, heavy with lots of presence. I can see how some1 would be very happy with those speakers. if I would listen to rock/metal exclusively i would buy DefTechs in a blink. Good thing my wife was not with me otherwise my search would be over
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Long story short I bough a pair of SongTowers and the SongCenter. i have no sub but for towers of their size I'd expect them to go full range with no probs.
In my room they play down to 25Hz, I can even hear the 20Hz test tone, so I'll leave the sub out of equation for now.
So anyways to right off the back I played 'Chris Rea - The road to hell' it has a nice steady bass and drums and my first impression was where the hell is the bass???????!!!!!!!! I mean nothing, nada.
Then I tried watching Transformers and another surprise came along when I could actually feel the building collapse. For movies STs play absolutely fine without sub woofer for my taste (I leave in apartment and have a couple of small kids...). The dialog is absolutely great and details are unbelievable.
So I was kinda puzzled how come STs play the deepest bass of sound effects, measure flat down to 25Hz and yet lack in bass department when playing music?
So i started going through my collection and when recording does fit the STs they play awesome. Stuff like Norah Jones, Eagles, Dire Staights, Elbow sound just right. Perfect voices, lots of details I could actually hear a singer breathe in some spots. Piano sounds full and real, acoustic guitar is real. Bass is super clean and tight. Norah Jones is my personal favorite for STs, they add something special to her voice, you just really have to hear it.
but with every new recording I play it is like a gamble, will it sound great or will it sound like an old radio?
So the bad ones I hit is Nirvana, AC/DC, Barry White, Chris Rea and many more, I can honestly say that I can not enjoy listening to about 1/3 of my collection. I can kinda guess that a recording has a chance to sound bad usually when lots of instruments playing at the same time. Or for example then you normally expect to hear a ROAR from a tab on electric guitar STs play a high toned shriek. Or when the whole band starts playing there is so much going on in highs that it overshadows the bass and makes my had heart. Barry White got blacklisted because he sounded kinda like Barry Junior (without his usual deep tone).
My wife's comments after a few days were harsh "These speakers sound just a little better than the TV and a lot worse than the last ones (Verus Forte Towers)".
So the bottom line is when STs have a right recording their awesome (Usually acoustics, voice, jazz), but if a recording is not right for them it's just impossible to listen (really thin, bodyless and bright).
i found a couple workarounds for bad recordings, MDAX on Marantz makes them sound better (it's not what mdax for but it helps somehow), the manual EQ with lows maxed out and highs toned down a little helps on some recordings.
I have a slight suspicion that my Marantz SR6005 is not handling STs too well on dynamically compressed recordings maybe I need to test a stronger amp.
Another possibility is that I just never heard what a real quality speaker sounds like. All my life I was listening to either old communist Russia speakers or latly my PC or car speakers, Now that I hear the real thing it's just different from what I'm used to. So now i guess I need to visit some HiFi shows and listen to other quality speakers and see how they play records that sound bad on STs. Hopefully I can make it to AK fest.
And another possibility is that all those bad sounding recordings are just mastered for mass production speakers and not for HiFi. But it would be just amazing how many poorly mixed stuff is out there. But i guess it would make scene if STs is already on the bright side and a producer increases highs to make recording sound good on car stereo, then the STs will play that record as a shrill.
A couple times I almost put them back on audiogon but I'm just afraid that if I get something else I will miss all the details, clarity and imaging (o yeah, imaging/soundstage is great btw, once I found a good stop for STs they really disappear, for the first time I can hear all the soundtage/imaging stuff I was reading about). I think I might have to get 2 pairs of speakers (DefTechhs for rock and STs for light stuff).
Please don't take my opinion too seriously as I'm not an audiophile by any means. It's my absolutely first system and I might not be ready for a real speaker.
So for now the plan is to get a sub and try to listen to PhiharmonicIIs.
KEF Q900 is a backup plan as it's a good all arounder..