Normally, it is recommended to set it up lengthwise. However, since 19 and 21 are so close, it's not quite as clear cut IMO. And really, one of those numbers is not really accurate, if you know what I mean.
I would simply experiment, and try various orientations. It shouldn't be too much work, if you are concerned about that. Just some receiver/integrated, and a pair of speakers. An afternoon could likely suffice.
One of the most common compromises that people do is to be against the back wall. I vote for your back at the railing, rather than your back at the wall.
If you find that it sounds better overall with the railing to the side, you will most likely want to absorb the asymmetrically closer side. The stronger reflected energy on that side can tilt the stage and energy over there. Of course, absorbing your first reflections is a good things anyways.
As for the funky ceiling, you are best served by posting some photos. Due to the possibly very close proximity of this ceiling to the listener, it will be extremely likely that the ceiling will benefit from treatments as well.