The first big thing to understand coming into this hobby (and most hobbies) is that big $ do not necessarily mean High Quality Audio!
$1-2k spent in the right places, and waiting out for good deals, will get you audio quality better than 95% of everybody out there!
On the flip side, $10k spent on snake oil cables is just a waste of $9.9k!
A regular around this site has a quote, but I don't remember who it is, that sums this up perfectly.
To paraphrase that quote, "I spent a whole lot of $ on audio to learn that I don't have to spend a whole lot of $ for GOOD audio".
You are certainly dealing with a Grade A Audiophool!