I'm in the same boat right now. I'm looking for bookshelves with highs that are not harsh and a balanced, detailed speaker. I listen at low-moderate levels (60s/70s rock). I'm not looking to blow out windows, I'm looking for a good musical experience and on a tight budget (I'm on disability).
I've had a lot of floorstanders and I just bought Infinity RS2000.3 which are unbearable - big sound and can fill up a room but very harsh highs, boomy mids and tweeter imaging is odd.
Wondering if any vintage Wharfedale, KEF, Polk or others might fit my criteria?
This is what I've owned starting with preference -
Infinity 7
Infinity 8 - (I7 tweeters much more realistic)
Polk Monitor 10 - (lack some detail)
B&W DM603v3 - (Very refined/tame bass, vocals a tad unrealistic)
B&W P4 - (weak imaging, tame sound, 4 ohms)
Klipsch Towers (basic low budget, 1990's)
AR Towers (basic low budget, 1990's)
JBL L100 - (not balanced)
Polk Monitor 5 - (not balanced, bright)
Dynaco A25
fyi: Best sound I've had is my car audio: ADS comps (non-fatiguing silk tweeters, very realistic sound & balanced)