Actually, you can play circus music at my funeral for all I care... lol
I was watching a British show and the people on it were all comedians. The question of "What's the worst thing to do at a funeral?" came up and one said "Heckle the eulogy?". When asked what he wanted to hear at his funeral, he uttered "Noooooo! Whyyyyyyyyy? Ahhhhhhhh!". Unfortunately, he passed a few months ago.
If friends and family weren't so spread around the country, I would want a party with a good band- none of this somber, wailing and gnashing of teeth, hushed conversations and comments like "He looks so natural..." and "Why did they put him in
that suit?".