Choice for AVR and amp for LCR still being researched. Read some interesting things about commercial amps, Yamaha's in particular. Not really convinced I need to get a super high watt amp
Don't think you do either but 200 watts would get you all the power you could ever ask for.... I would consider it as it would get you to reference levels in pretty much any room for the rest of your life.. Just make sure the commercial amps have a low noise floor and that includes fan noise if it's gonna be in the same room.
RCA to XLR adapters etc. might be needed. Need to keep it simple so I don't open up a "can of worms" with hum noise.
I believe XLR can still transmit a ground loop... I would do some more research if that were my motivations.
Would be nice if I can find a quality AVR around $500-$800 with XLR out
Cheapest I can think of would be the Marantz AV7005 or upcoming Emotiva XMC. Beyond that receivers are not likely to have XLR out. It's not an issue though. If your amp has XLR-in, just get a simple monoprice RCA-Male-to-XLR-Male cable.
puts with the correct voltage to interface with the commercial amps without a product like Art Pro Audio Clean Box.
Even most receivers will have the pre-output voltage to drive a pro amp to full power without clipping. I would stay away from the Clean Box or even the (superior but still flawed) Samson S-Convert. You simply don't need this unless you've got a receiver with
very poor pre-outs. Most decent receivers should do 4-5v RMS before clipping and most amps, including pro-amps, only require 1.5-2.0 v RMS to be driven to full power AFAIK. They just might need a bit more gains in the level trims is all, but that's countered by the sensitivity of your speakers anyways.
Emotiva 3 channel amp could/should be a good non-commercial choice instead? Oh, then there are the EQ's to consider, my brain has yet to process all the info regarding them.
Emotiva is a good no-nonsense choice. My personal choice would be a partially DIY hypex amp. It shouldn't too hard if you're willing to read up on it, and what it's got over the emotiva stuff is power efficiency.
http://www.hypex.nl/
A few other choices you might wanna consider would be
-ATI B-Stock from classic Audio Parts
-Behringer A500s
My room is acoustically "bright". No soft surfaces what so ever just hard wood floors and large windows. Will soften the room as budget allows.
Forget "softening" the room for now. First focus on diffusion at first reflection points.