What about getting a sixth speaker for mid rear? If I'm going to get a sub I was thinking of getting another speakers as well... thoughts? Is it worth it?
Generally speaking, the difference between having a 6.1 (or 7.1) and 5.1 is not overly dramatic, though it depends upon the room and the positioning of the speakers to some extent. The closer the surround channels are to the
sides of the seating position (as opposed to
behind the seating position), the more useful a rear surround speaker(s) becomes. However, many films are recorded only in 5.1 anyway, so most of the time it will be silent unless you use some processing in your processor to synthetically generate rear surround channel(s).
As for whether it is worth it or not, only you can judge, though many find it less than important. Translate that to mean: If money is tight, do not bother with it, but if you have plenty of money and room for it, go ahead. Do, however, make sure you buy the best subwoofer you can afford. Scrimping on a subwoofer so you could add a rear channel speaker or two would be a mistake. If you like deep bass, I recommend SVS subwoofers, though you can find some other brands that may be worth considering. When setting it up, make sure you set it "flat" (i.e., not set at a higher level than the other speakers), which should keep your wife from being too unhappy with it, and it will give you the most natural sound that way at normal volumes. The most inexpensive subwoofer from SVS is (at preorder price for the redesigned version) $449 plus shipping:
http://www.svsound.com/products-sub-box-10nsd.cfm
Most people would probably be happy with it, but if you can afford a higher model, buy a higher model. Rarely do people regret buying a better subwoofer over a lessor one. But don't spend more than you can afford; read the reviews of the earlier version of the above subwoofer and you will see that it is a great subwoofer for the money, and a respectable one in absolute terms.
My wife does not like excessive bass, but she is very happy with our two SVS Ultra subwoofers. I set them flat, so the bass is only there when it is supposed to be there, and is not artificially exaggerated. But because they are good, the bass is very deep, and it can shake the house when the soundtrack calls for it.