Unfortunate state of affairs. If keeping the 7.1 EXT IN. is a must, choices are fewer still. The 8805A is available online though I know you are reluctant to go that way. The Trinnov Altitude32 is fitted with the 7.1 EXT IN but they aren’t exactly giving that unit away. Do not Anthem units require web setup with no onscreen setup? Something to consider along with the user manual.
The Marantz AV10 will lack the 7.1 EXT IN but features LFE Distribution to route LFE to any speakers set to Large as I know are present in this system. The 2CH Playback feature offers separate speaker settings for use in Stereo and Direct mode.
I would keep an open mind and also consider the Denon AVR-A10H. Its amplifiers can be shut down when setting it to Preamplifier mode for use with external amps. It is equipped with the LFE Distribution and 2CH Playback features as well.
The A10H also features Bass Extraction LPF for the ability to adjust the point at which low frequencies are copied to the subwoofer when using speakers set to Large.
To experiment with a unit a bit less equipped with customizable features but at a much lower cost, the Denon AVR-X3800H that
@AcuDefTechGuy mentioned can be used in Preamplifier mode for all channels as well and, like the AVR-10H and AV10, features LFE Distribution and 4 Subwoofer Pre Outs with separate level and distance settings.
If one believes Denon/Marantz to be on their way out, I’d get the most features for the least amount of money at this point. The X3800H is well equipped but lacks the 7.1 EXT. IN as well. Though, it is time to let that one go.

Whatever you do, good luck with it.