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I omitted to mention in my earlier notes that when switching from one source to another (e.*. CD to DVD to FM) each time there is a similar delay until the sound comes through, in the order of several minutes.
This morning I was going to test audioman's suggestion to disconnect the speakers to see what the delay was for the relays to kick in. Again, with the speakers connected it took about 14 minutes for the sound to come on after pressing the standby switch with the DVD source turned on.
So I started to experiment. To my amazement, the thing worked perfectly, without doing anything to the speakers!! I could switch from source to source without delay, I could turn the receiver off for a minute, turn it back on, and it worked as it should (I could not turn it off and on before without another delay). The beahvior of the relays in this condition was as I described in my earlier posting - it took a few seconds for the third click, at which point the sound came on. ...however, this only lasted for about 10 mintues - now I'm back with the delays!
Frustrating!
I also disconnected the speakers to see if there was a difference in the relays closing as audioman suggested - no difference.
What next?
Thanks for any (encouraging) thoughts