How did the room sizes compare between the three sets of speakers?
The efficiency of the 9.5 is 88dB vs. 90dB for the 10.7.
So assuming the same size of room and the same SPL, that would certainly explain why the 9.5 sounded worse.
The Onkyo rates power as:
90 W + 90 W (8 ohms, 20 Hz–20 kHz, 0.08%, 2 channels driven, FTC)
105 W + 105 W (8 ohms, 1 kHz, 0.7%, 2 channels driven, FTC)
110 W + 110 W (6 ohms, 1 kHz, 0.1%, 2 channels driven, FTC)
While not an absolute, the fact that it only adds 5 Watts when you go from 8 ohms to 4 ohms means it likely does not offer much headroom. Also these ratings are for 1kHz tone and only two speakers. It is very reasonable that the amp section was being taxed with the combination of Loud, Bass, and multi speakers (and room size is also a consideration).
The Soavo efficiency is rated at 89dB so it is right between the Diamonds you listened to.
The Denon 1910 rates power as:
90 W + 90 W (8 ohms, 20 Hz–20 kHz, 0.08%)
125 W + 125 W (6 ohms, 1 kHz, 0.1%)
Unfortunately, Denon does not give a spec for 8 ohms at 1kHz, but we see a 39% increase (from 90 to 125) for the Denon vs. 22% (from 90 to 110) for the Onkyo.
There are many other variables in these ratings such as how conservative the companies' marketing departments may be and the Denon was reported as putting out 90 Watts with all channels driven together (but Denon's own site did not make that clear). Nonetheless, the Denon seems to be a more rigorous amp despite the same basic 90 Watt rating.
With your propensity towards high volume, and unless your room at home is quite a bit smaller, I suspect you will ultimately want to upgrade to a separate two channel amp for your mains.
Note: this is
my limited understanding of power ratings. Take it with a grain of salt! However, if I hosed it up, I'm sure it won't be long before someone with more knowledge educates me.