since i am newbie, all the things you write above seem to be chinese for me

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I have read through the
pdf of that speaker system thoroughly. Since you can't seem to understand what I'm saying this may be difficult for you to accomplish.
The Eq is in the head unit of that Lifestyle system.
So that makes it difficult but you could use them those speakers
You will need to get via eBay, a used active equalizer for that vintage of 901 speakers. You will need a receiver with pre outs.
You will need soldering skills.
Take the left main pre out and right main pre out from the receiver and connect them to the from tape out inputs of the active Bose equalizer you will try and find.
Connect the left tape output from the equalizer (the input that would go to tape in of an old style receiver) and connect the hot to pin 3 on the connector on the Bose speaker that contains the amps. Connect the right tape output of the equalizer to pin 4 of the connector on the active speaker.
Both shields go to pin 5.
The easiest way to do this is to cut the wire to the "funny) Bose connector and about six inches from the plug. With a multimeter identify the shields to pin 5. With the meter then identify the left and right hots to pins 3 and 4.
Now solder female RCA sockets to the wires to pins 3, and four and soldering both shields to the grounds of the sockets.
You can then use regular RCA leads to connect from the active equalizer to to the female RCA sockets you soldered on the Bose lead.
If you don't understand this it is game over for you and you can not use those speakers except with the head unit it came with.