Actually he will be getting the remote from me.
A stylus is not needed, and may be a bad idea.
The good thing with the pronto is you can choose the size (and placement) of the button. And as long as you don't go crazy and put buttons any closer than 1/10" from each other you will be fine. I have used the remote fingers only, and I have NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, had one missed button press. The main thing, is the TSU3000 has 20 hard buttons, with excellent backlighting. Use the hard buttons for your common uses, like volume control, and play/pause, etc...
Also a stylus may be bad for 2 reasons I can think of at the moment. One, you may be a tad drunk and take a hard stab, and crack the lcd screen. Two, same thing but this remote is not recommended to allow little children to use. Because, if they feel like they have the use of it specially with a stylus. Then one day you may come home to find the child wanted to play patty-cake with the stylus and remote.
I'm not saying its a remote that can't take a beating. But just use common sense, it is not a toy. (well, not a child’s toy)
Anyhow, I did not get to send it today, but I am up right now. 2:26am EST and will package it for shipment tomorrow afternoon.
You are computer savvy, but you will/may have questions. So feel free to call after 9:00pm.