Thank You all for your responses
I’ll be checking denon site for authorized dealers.
The features I need are from my receiver are all of the latest HD related bell & whistles like DTS HD, HDMA, multi zone & network capability, multi HDMI inputs and most important is excellent quality video up-conversion since my use is 70% movies & 30% music, etc. Also I would like my every other component to be 1.3 HDMI compatible. I did looked at Onkyo receivers, they have very good features & less pricey than Denon but also read some complaints that steered me away from them.
For speakers I’m leaning towards Axiom Epic -60 or Epic-80 (I’m aware I may need to get a 2 ch amp for 80 if I decide not to go with separates). Right now I’m trying to arrange for audition only after that I can finally decide. Yes I agree with you all that I should be choosing speakers first.
Here’s how I plan to blow up my dollars

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Up to $3500 max for speakers
$3500 for projector & screen (Panasonic AE2000 & Carada brilliant white fixed screen)
$800 for DVD player (Samsung BD-UP5000)
$2000 for receiver or separates whichever I decide with inputs from you guys.
Wires & cables extra.
I’ll also be getting Avia home theatre guide & SPL meter from radio shack.