The DVD player is part of that $2K?
My suggestion is to look at the internet direct brands. Ascend Acoustics, Axiom, AV123, Aperion.
My suggestion:
4 x Ascend Acoustics CBM-170
1 x Ascend Acoustics CMT-340c
Hsu VTF-3MK2 sub
According to the Ascend Acoustics site - $1646 delivered.
Get the VTF-2MK2 and it is $1421, and then use the rest to get a nice Denon 2910 universal player. I think you will be all set!
Spend the rest on cables, music, and movies.
Do your research, get out and listen, know your preferences, and enjoy the process.
edit: just re-read your post. Heck, get CMT-340's all the way around.