What I would do, if I had the money...
Is find a local store and try to audition 2-3 pairs of speakers in your home. Return all but the best pair you like.
Contact 2 Internet Direct companies, and have there speakers sent to your home to audition. Listen to all 3 sets of speakers. Buy the pair you like.
At most, you'll be out some money due to possible shipping costs. BUT, you will have heard speakers in your house, AND you will now own a pair.
Be sure to try compare apples to apples.
example: Bookshelves vs Bookshelves@ <$1000pr; Towers vs Towers@ <$1000/pr
and not Bookshelves <$500 vs Towers >$1500.
Good luck. Let us know what you get.