Hey fellow Canadian, how you do?
Hi, and Welcome to Audioholics forums.
Here's my suggestion to you (by the way, I'm originally from Montreal too, but I now live in Victoria, British Columbia):
Ok, go to your Paradigm dealer, talk to a person that you feel you can relate too, and explain to him what you just posted here. Ask him to audition some Paradigm Reference Studio 20s (their latest version) with the Paradigm DSP-3400 subwoofer. Also, listen to some of the Paradigm Signature Series with a sub like the Sevo 15.
If that dealer is doing a good job, he'll know what are the best matches, and the speakers for you to audition. Don't talk money, talk Quality Sound.
* But so far, from my understanding, you don't really need to spend that much, unless you are a true Audiophile with some high end gear.
You seem to be after quality audio, and value good service and smart recommendations. The size of your room, the type of music & movies you listen and watch, the volume level at what you prefer listening, your room characteristics, the people that share this room with you, are all elements to consider meticulously, for the audio nirvana that you're after.
That's why I recommend that you go out auditioning speakers in your spare time, and that you listen to as many as you can, bringing with you your favorite music, and take the time to just do so.
This is by far the best advice that I can give to someone like you.
Cheers,
Bob