Thanks for responses.
Auditioned:
-Thiel CS2.4 - too clinical and unforgiving of sources
-B&W 803 - way too warm
-Focal Chorus 836 -combination of being driven by all valve system (Bob Carver Cherry 180 monoblocks) and many spotty reviews caused me to have reservations - couldn't tell if warmth, bloominess was amp or speaker artifact - probably not a fair audition
-Wilson Audio Sophia 2 (used) - out of my league, but there's always the lottery...
-Dynaudio Focus 260's - don't remeber associated equipment. but did not impress
-Various and Sundry at Best Buy Magnolias, etc.
-Joesph Audio Perspectives driven by LM (Line Magnetic) 845 219A amplifier - again way out of my league but only speaker I've ever heard that might be better than the Sophia's (at that price point -the straining, breaking price
point of mere mortals)....
-Joseph Audio RM25XL (same dealer) driven by Parsound 5250 5 channel amp w/ Marantz AV7005 pre/pro and Marantz UD7006 Universal SACD player - at last a dose of reality - listened to, among other things, the 20th Aniversery SACD Dire Straits Brothers in Arms and heard some of the tautest bass and clean, liquid, non-fatiguing highs I've ever heard at this price range. The bass surprised me - although rated to 32hz, they sound pretty full range to me. Only down size is that at 88db they need power for good mid-range, despite comments to be found elsewhere (not just here) about how easy they are to drive, and they are extremely placement sensitive - but worth the effort.
Thanks again - still hope to hear more about pre-amps from everyone.