This is my suggestion to your dilema. In order to get domething half decent for this price you will have to buy used. Look for paradigm titans preferably or atoms on Ebay and Audiogon. I'd also suggest PSB alpha b's like this set
ebay alpha b's,
here's some more auctions to watch.
paradigm's
titans
titans
atoms
edit here is a pair of buy it now titans for $120 + $25 shipping. Great deal IMO
buy it now ebay
I think that any of these speakers will much better suit your needs than the two you mentioned.
Please don't go the JBL route. I did and I know better. JBL makes some very decent products, but their Northridge series of products is a failure IMO. What Buckeye is trying to tell you is that that your receiver and those warfdales are a bad mix. The speakers want more watts that that receiver can deal out, despite what the box says. .1% is a ton of distortion, and the figures for the amp are distorted in other ways to make them more appealing. This does not make it a bad receiver, you just need to use more efficient speakers.
As for speaker cable get it from home depot or a cheap online vendor. Look up retailers for sound king speaker wire. Just get a decent gage of 14 or lower and you're off. Should be no more than $.30 a foot. Stands, again go used, their stands, I mean who cares.
Good luck, I know you'll enjoy your purchases no matter what you decide, and my suggestions are just that, suggestions.