There is a reason tone controls aren't used anymore, they're next to useless.
An equalizer, at least 5 band, will work much better. And then, you use it to compensate for the room, not adjust the recording.
Unless you're willing to put out $60K for a pair of JBL Everest, and the quality gear to match, no home sound system is going to sound like live, real music.
Many systems can sound very good, but they're not going to sound as good as a live concert, in an outdoor amphitheater.