You mean 130 sqft or 1300 cuft? I use dual 12" subs in my bedroom of around 1100 cuft. It's about setup and the particular sub, not particularly cone size alone altho that may be a good general indicator of how much air it can push.
Apartment living can be bad for subs. Haven't done that for the last 40 plus years as I didn't like hearing my neighbors at all (easier to deal with roommates in houses). If a door moves a bit I make an adjustment to it but that's not been a particular problem for me, but there are ways of dealing with various resonances/effects of subs in items around a room. I use museum putty behind pictures, on items rattling on shelves, etc. Good rubber cabinet feet under a sub are as good as any of the "decouplers" IME, but some with very soft floors report otherwise.
While a 10" driver would push more air than the 8", all other things relatively equal due to the magic of cone geometry, it's not just 25% more as the difference in diameter would have you think. The doubling of watts if two drivers were the same would only mean a 3dB difference; without the sensitivity and capabilities of the sub it's hard to determine anything from the number of watts alone. The 10" likely has better extension (ability to go low), though; that the 10" would peform better than an 8" wouldn't surprise me. Any sub that came with a soundbar is generally easily bettered by something further up the foodchain. I have subs across the cone size spectrum, an 8", a coupla 10"s, several 12"s, a dual opposed 15" and several 18"......
Bottom line is its personal preference. I like bass
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