How is the sub volume when you are using the internal test tones on
the receiver?
Rooms are notorious for such peaks and valleys in the sub band; that is the nature of the beast, unfortunately. Some are even much more.
I would suggest that Behringer feedback destroyer as you can select any frequency and shape it to what width you need tamed by how much. I think it will cut up to 48 dB and it works in the digital domain at 24 bits.
But, you would need a better test cd than what you have as you would need to have better frequency resolution than you can estimate from a sweep tone; that is just pure guessing.
There are low frequency test tones at 1 cycle increments from 10Hz-99Hz. You could check the full spectrum, plot it, apply meter correction as the RS meter is not linear by any means, then, with that Behringer, you can have it FLAT, maybe. It takes time.