Didn't you say you finished it with plastic laminate? Like Formica? The tools listed wouldn't really get you a decent result. Seems like you're all for the DIY approach and thats great. Your happy with your results and really that's all that counts.
We all have different standards of acceptability. Some people have a knack for precision. Maybe you're one of them. I honestly believe that it sometimes just happens that way. Other people are natural born slobs who couldn't make two pieces of wood come together as one if their very lives depended on it.
The bottm line is that when it comes to doing anything we all start at the same place. My personal approach to unfamiliar tasks is to get a teacher. But that's just me and I treat everything like rocket surgery.
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