One main point you seem to ignore.
It's not necessatially a "Bose bashing" site as much as a site that realizes it's limitations and the strong hold that well-funded, properly placed, snazzy marketing has on the general public. PErsonally, I find some of their products decent, just not these under discussion.
There are major differences between your "Acoustimass speaker system" and your "Lifestyle (all-in-one) systems".
The "Acoustimass" line was designed as a stand-alone, passive speaker system. As such, it' perfectly happy with being driven with a receiver.
The "Lifestyle" line is designed as an all-in-one system, with all functionality contained within itself. While it may look like your Acoustimass speaker system with a "receiver", it's not. That's not a receiver. It's just a control unit, like the removable face plate on a car stereo.
All major electron1cs are contained within the "bass module". This includes the power supply for the whole system, all amplifiers, and the all-important Bose equalization system.
That "receiver" is much like the removable face-plate on a car stereo. It just controls all the functionality that takes place in the main unit.
Once you grasp that concept, the futility of what you're asking should become apparant.
As for small satellites, look at the current Orb line of speakers or, if you get lucky, try to find some Realistic Miimus 7's from the eighties. Both will really require a subwoofer but ar ecapable of surprisingly good sound and you won't miss Bose a bit.